Thanking trauma

今天我經過一個 因為過去曾有的創傷而一直避開的地方。然後我想像了一下 如果當初事情不同的話 現在的我的人生可能的樣子;我經歷了一個短暫的Nemo Nobody時刻。

可是你知道嗎?不管我有多少個人生分支, 最重要的是我現在有的這一個人生分支是好的。就算不是,我也會把它變成是一個好的。

感謝那曾經的創傷 把我從當時的路途撥開,我才會在我今天所在的地方。我們的人生中 太多事情不受我們控制的發生。如何面對這些事情的選擇,是我們唯一可以控制的。一步一步走著,也就到了一個自己可以認同的地方。

Today I walked past a place I avoided due to past traumatic events. Then I contemplated about how my life would have been if things were different; I had a Nemo Nobody moment.

But you know what? Doesn’t matter how many  split lives I have, the most important is that the one I have right now is a good one.  Or I make it into a good one. 

Thanks to the traumatic event which threw me off my path, that I am where I am now. Things happen in our lives out of our control. How we choose to face it is the only control we have. One step at a time, I was able to slowly but surely get to this place I can agree with.